Backstabbing co-workers

Sadly, it is during these tough times that some co-workers feeling threatened, employ sneaky tactics to eliminate u n protect their rice bowl. But we've got your back with these strategies:

a) Become a fellow grape - On the grapevine that is. If the backstabber knows u keep ur ears n eyes open to office politics, they may think twice before stabbing u. Your survival is also better protected if u r clued into the going-on, re-organisations & layoffs in the office.

b) Friends in all places - Don't just work to create good relationships with ur boss and colleagues. Secretaries and assistants could also be the angel or the devil on the shoulders of the decision-makers so try ur best to get on their good side.

c) Saying less protects u more - Know that anything said "in private" can easily be taken public. In fact backstabbers often try to gather personal secrets so as to stock up undermining ammo.

d) Here, have ur knife back - If u r backstabbed, feel free to confront the offender in a calm and rational manner. Say something like: "If u have a problem with me, lets resolve it now, bcos we need to work together in a healthy way 2 create the most productive work environment." It's likely the backstabbing will stop.

Source : Cleo, May 2010